Here is my boyfriend wish list from 2002. I am happy to report I located him. If you need one too, try it.
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The man of my dreams
This might seem a little odd, but I did not want to give up on the idea to find a person in the big wide world, who walks around and waits for me. With this short list, I'll use my chances so this person will be able to find me. (Comment by author: It worked!) In other words: Modest woman looks for perfect man, who can make all her wishes come true! Old text (please don't reply, the position is filled), but I still like it. If you think (after reading til the very end of this page) you are the right fit for me and I won't run away screaming the first time we'll meet (please no mustache), send me an email. And, by the way, I am not desperate. I just want to screen potential candidates so we both don't have to waste our time dating and then finding out we are not compatible at all. So, I know you are out there. If it's you, contact me. Test for every day life compatibility Weekday mornings 1. you can get up fast, early and in a good mood, if you have to 2. if there isn't time for breakfast it's no problem for you 3. you just have a cup of tea or coffee in the kitchen 4. you can shower quickly Weekend mornings 5. you enjoy staying in bed, cuddling and reading 6. having breakfast in bed, a nice brunch with scrambled eggs Nice weather days 7. if it's nice you want to be outside, maybe at a lake or river 8. going for a walk, hiking, biking, sometimes fast paced, sometimes slow 9. exploring along the way (castles, forests, tree houses,...) 10. building dams, forts, snow men and igloos 11. sailing, snowboarding or hanging out in a row boat on the water 12. head-to-head stargazing at night Bad weather days 13. you enjoy playing board games, listening to music, reading and reading to each other 14. ironic, cynic and sarcastic books about life and love 15. about crazy ideas, traveling and fairy tales (from authors like Goldt, Droste, Kracht, Watzlawick, Doerrie, and others) 16. you like brainstorming about funny things, crafting collages, writing short stories, drawing, talking, maybe even playing piano 17. going for a walk, biking or swimming in the rain - all with a smile 18. you like writing letters more then screen time 19. if you watch TV you rather watch English movies then soccer or formula 1 20. and thoughtful movies with depth and humor rather than action and noise 21. movies like Chasing Amy, Amelie, Clerks, Before Sunrise and Erleuchtung garantiert On the road 22. you prefer travelling by foot, bike or public transportation over car or bus 23. train rides are wonderful (see before sunrise) 24. if you need a car it's a VW bus rather than a sports car 25. a good vacation is a mix of relaxation, culture, fun, people and good food 26. one night in a sleeping bag on the beach with bonfire 27. another night in a king bed suite with room service 28. and the next with no sleep at all and partying all night 29. You like it warm rather then cold, but moderate, not tropical 30. staying in a small, quiet village rather than Ballermann. 31. you are waterproof and tough 32. and you like vacationing just the two of us or with friends. Sports and games 33. you like sports like badminton or swimming in the lake 34. racquetball, paddling in an inflatable raft, wave boarding or a visit to the sauna 35. playing 'Settlers of Catan', UNO, chess and Sorry! 36. doing puzzles and Sudoku 37. climbing a small local mountain rather than Kilimanjaro Entertainment in the evenings 38. cabarets, improv theater and comedy 39. once in awhile a classical theater, opera or musical 40. sitting in the beer garden with old and new friends 41. going to concerts (hip hop, soul, alternative and rock) 42. hosting cocktail parties and barbecues 43. sitting, chatting and having fun General 44. smart, but not full of himself 45. helping instead of calling for help 46. active instead of passive 47. adventurous instead of boring 48. discussing and fighting but always fair and with heart 49. rather today than tomorrow 50. you can talk and listen in the right combination 51. better listening and understanding than being grouchy and not getting it 52. rather thoughtful than doing it 3 times and fail 53. considerate and adaptable, if it makes sense 54. loud and crazy, if it doesn't hurt anyone (like neighbors) 55. not too attached (I need my space), but if we hang out together, it's with full attention 56. the sparks should be felt on both sites Love life 57. unconditional love or love with numbered days, we won't know 58. it makes sense to invest in a relationship, familiarity and continuity are nice and important 59. being spontaneous and planning surprises is fun 60. taking care of others in sickness and crisis 61. it's okay to pass on things that don't work for the other half 62. it's nice to challenge each other 63. being curious, learning and setting new boundaries together 64. writing love letters is not cheesy or unnecessary 65. more heart and head than money and laziness 66. romantic and realistic 67. 1 or 2 kids in a couple of years (starting 2004) 68. family and private life is more important to you than money and career 69. a little bit of jealousy is healthy 70. you want your partner to also be a best friend 71. if the relationship goes bad, cheating can mean the end 72. a single incident/flirt is human and should not end the relationship if both are still happy with the partnership 73. all rules and agreements are equal for both partners 74. making wishes come true is fun 75. being open and honest about problems and needs 76. love means to be together in good and bad times 77. planning goals, vacations and activities together 78. but also saying 'no' and taking some time for yourself Social life 79. eating out in a revolving restaurant 80. or eating Indian, Mexican, Spanish, Greek, Italian 81. you like eating yummy, $ food but sometimes also a little more fancy 82. a glass of wine or beer, never a keg 83. sometimes a glass more, but never too much 84. having a picnic on the meadow 85. you're always a welcome guest or host 86. not excessive always thoughtful and within means 87. inviting friends for the weekend 88. being welcomed at family reunions, enjoying bad jokes, dancing waltz and playing horseshoes 89. organizing a surprise party for me or our friends 90. you call your friends to do something fun together 91. you like candlelight dinners for two 92. and if you go out by yourself you stay loyal Homey 93. you like wearing the apron and using the whisk in the kitchen 94. you can relax taking a bubble bath 95. you like grocery shopping and cooking for us or friends 96. you like armchairs better than modern designer furniture 97. you like dressing sporty and casual (please no sweat pants in the house) 98. boxers instead of strings 99. you don't tuck your shirt in 100. you don't enjoy shopping for clothes, especially not with friends 101. you dress casual, sporty and sometimes elegant 102 you are okay wearing a suit for special occasions Beauty 103. rather sunflower than roses 104. bonfire rather than gas grills 105. wood instead of electronics 106. programming a voice mail or video recorder is an easy job for you 107. if you read this list all til the end and you determined you can only check off about two thirds of this list, you are still in pretty good shape and we should meet. As an alternative if your name is Thomas, apparently you don't have to score 100 points as I have a thing for 'Thomasse', then you should also contact me. ;-) |
Der Mann meiner Traeume
Mag sein, dass diese Seite etwas sehr kitschig ist, aber ich wollte eben nichts unversucht lassen, der Person, da draussen in der weiten, weiten Welt, die da rumläuft und vielleicht auf mich wartet, die Chance zu geben, mich auf diesem Weg zu finden. ;-) (Anm. d. R. wurde kürzlich bereits gefunden) Andere Version: Anspruchslose Frau sucht den perfekten Mann, der ihr die Wünsche von den Augen abliest. Alter Text (aber weil er so schön ist, lass ich ihn): Wenn du dich angesprochen fühlt und nicht von dir denkst, ich könnte die Krätze bekommen, wenn es zum ersten Treffen kommt (bitte keine Oberlippenbärte!), bitte eine liebe Mail an mich! Ach, und übrigens - es geht hier nicht um Notstand. Es geht mehr darum vorzuselektieren, um zukünftig nicht bei den zwar ganz netten, aber letztlich doch "falschen Jungs" hängenzubleiben, denn ich weiss, es gibt Dich (wenn wir uns nicht sogar schon kennen)! :-) TEST auf ALLTAGSTAUGLICHKEIT
Eine Alternative zu diesen knapp über 100 Punkten ist es "Thomas" zu heissen. Da kann man sich das ganze dann sparen! Und es klappt auch. :-) [cb 27.02.2002] |